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Post by The Rolling Rooster on Feb 25, 2005 15:51:19 GMT -5
Okay, I just got an idea in my head. Maybe Becky could end up being a bad influence. In the beginning it seems good as she brings spontaneous life tendencies to Gilbert's life and helps him to see life in a new light... but not having any ties to anything could definitely become bad and end up being a dis-service to Gilbert. Maybe she isn't perfect for him after all.. We all know Sunny is his true love
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Post by The Sunset Dreamer on Feb 25, 2005 18:22:27 GMT -5
EEE! You're so sweet, Roo! I'll go along with that! I really do agree with your statement though, because Gilbert's family has been his life for so long, and Endora too, and Becky pulls him away from all of it. Thats gotta have some effects. Good thread idea, Ms. Roo!
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Post by The Poetic Protégée on Feb 25, 2005 18:37:46 GMT -5
Good thread idea Roo! I do think that Becky could have had too much of an influence on Gilbert, after all, whether it's fair or not, he does have responsibilities which Becky does not seem to value or understand. I do think that Becky broke the cycle that could have had Gilbert becoming a figure like his father or Mr Carver though, which is definitely a good thing!
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Post by The Rolling Rooster on Feb 25, 2005 19:55:30 GMT -5
Yes that is a good point Lynx. But she also ripped the stability out of his life entirely. Everything that he had known was flipped upside down. A sudden change like that is bound to have draw backs.
Interesting to ponder what those might be.
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Post by The Curse of Quixote on Mar 2, 2005 21:59:03 GMT -5
Roo you bring up the most interesting topic starters! I think it's a catch 20 whenever you give up your life to share it with someone else. You can never know until you take a chance on how they will impact you. You have to be willing to sacrifice in order to get the pleasure of a fruitful friendship. At least, I think so.
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Post by The Poetic Protégée on Mar 3, 2005 17:56:51 GMT -5
I think so too BP If you're not prepared to make sacrifices then a relationship, whatever kind, is never going to work. The chances you take in life are often the things that lead to the most amazing moments. I'm sure Gilbert is glad he took a chance with Becky
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Post by The Rolling Rooster on Mar 5, 2005 20:32:33 GMT -5
Yeah Lynx I'm sure for the most part he is. He seemed very intrigued (spelt?) with her and always had new things and places to look forward to with a lifestyle like that.
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Post by The Sunset Dreamer on Mar 6, 2005 13:39:26 GMT -5
I bet he is glad he made the choice he did.
Becky was so sweet, and she really did teach him a lot.
Like how when she asked him what he wanted and he kept listing off things he wanted for his family, not himself.
She taught him that it was OK to want things for himself too...a HUGE step for Gilbert.
She really helped him start living his own life, not everyone elses.
I'm sure he is grateful! ;D
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Post by The Eternal Optimist on Dec 22, 2005 15:25:48 GMT -5
Becky is half and half. She is good and bad. Good in the fact she taught Glibert it's okay to be a little selfish. And when agian she is bad in the fact she doesn't seem to understand Gilbert's Family is and probably still is even if he is gone a big part of him. She seems to be running away alot. What is she running away from? Plus everyone knows Sunny is his true love so she needs to back off.
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Post by The Dependable Deliverer on Apr 2, 2006 13:50:18 GMT -5
I don't think Becky was a bad influence. She was just a lot different from Gilbert in fact they were complete opposites. Becky travelled a lot whereas Gilbert stayed in the same place all the time. Becky just opened Gilbert's eyes into how big the world really is and Gilbert liked the look of it.
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Post by The Eternal Optimist on Apr 2, 2006 13:54:53 GMT -5
I don't think Becky was a bad influence. She was just a lot different from Gilbert in fact they were complete opposites. Becky travelled a lot whereas Gilbert stayed in the same place all the time. Becky just opened Gilbert's eyes into how big the world really is and Gilbert liked the look of it. I think your just saying that cause your name is Becky. (Joke)
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Post by The Dependable Deliverer on Apr 2, 2006 14:00:43 GMT -5
I think your just saying that cause your name is Becky. (Joke) LOL #eyebrow#
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Post by The Poetic Protégée on Apr 2, 2006 16:39:14 GMT -5
I like that thought. I think you're right there, Becky.
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Post by The Dependable Deliverer on Apr 3, 2006 4:32:09 GMT -5
I like that thought as well...but i suppose i am being a little biased because my name is Becky... #eyebrow#
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Post by The Poetic Protégée on Apr 3, 2006 16:23:46 GMT -5
Can't say I blame you
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