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Post by The Poetic Protégée on Feb 12, 2009 3:05:16 GMT -5
Mum's are tricky. The worst thing you could do is escalate the conflict, after all she is his mother and you don't want to make him choose between his family and you. The longer you stay together the less of a case his mother will have so have patience, sweetie. I'm sure she'll grow to love you in the end .
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Post by The Idyllic Idealist on Feb 12, 2009 11:20:58 GMT -5
That's good advice Jay. I hope things get better soon Wonder. #hugs#
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Post by bohemian on Feb 21, 2009 6:04:38 GMT -5
Aw, Wonder. I agree with Jay too. I think the power of love will win here. She'll come to see that you are indeed a good person for her son and that she was wrong to make those silly accusations. On a different note: there's a guy who I can see myself dating. We like each other very, very much. I sometimes feel I make things awkward by talking too much (because when I get nervous .... I ramble) but he keeps telling me not to worry. And he's the sweetest thing too. Granted, there's an age difference but I'm willing to overlook that. For once, here is someone who actually cares about my feelings, likes me for who I am, and is straight (my parents constantly joked about me finding a straight guy in the theatre. Things like "Oh, she'll never get a boyfriend if she keeps hanging out with all those gay guys!") It's so hard to describe. I guess I've never experienced the feeling of being compatible with someone before... The best part? My dad totally approves (because they work together, and my dad thinks he's a nice guy). Yaaaay.
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Post by The Poetic Protégée on Feb 22, 2009 13:18:35 GMT -5
Good for you, bohemian! Compatibility is a rare thing to find in my experience. I ramble when I'm nervous too, you're not alone . I just spent twenty four hours being utterly spoilt by my man, guys may be confusing but sometimes they do things just right .
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Post by The Idyllic Idealist on Mar 2, 2009 8:40:51 GMT -5
Aww, that's fantastic Bohemian. Haha, I'm the opposite. I stay quiet when I'm nervous because I don't know what to say.
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Post by bohemian on Mar 2, 2009 11:44:57 GMT -5
Well, he stood me up on a date so now I'm not sure where we stand. I'm just waiting for an apology. So far that hasn't happened. And this, my friends, is why you shouldn't let a guy into your life because they always find a way to screw something up.
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Post by The Idyllic Idealist on Mar 2, 2009 15:35:39 GMT -5
Ooh, sorry to hear that Bohemian. You never know, he might have a good explanation.
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Post by bohemian on Mar 3, 2009 0:23:40 GMT -5
He had an explaination.
He just forgot that he had to help kids, is all. (which is okay, because it seemed like a good cause).
But even so, every one of my guy friends I've talked to about this said that (hypothetically) if they had a date planned with someone but then realized that on that day they had other plans which they forgot about, they would call the girl right away and tell her what was going on.
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Post by The Idyllic Idealist on Mar 3, 2009 8:49:48 GMT -5
Aww, that is a sweet reason! You do have a point though, he should've called you right away. But now that he knows how you felt about that, I doubt he'll do that anymore.
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Post by bohemian on Mar 3, 2009 11:05:42 GMT -5
I hope so.
We're talking right now online.
I really don't hate him or anything.
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